We swapped phones for one day as a game. By noon I knew he pays school fees for three children.

Husband: let's swap phones for one day, full trust. Me: fine. 11am, his phone lights up with a bank alert. Third-term fees: Adaeze. We have no child called Adaeze. I scrolled. Three names, three schools, paid every term for six years. One of the children is named after me. I put the phone down and made lunch like nothing happened.