Sunday candle night: we ate in the dark. At 27 I learned that is not normal.

was it only my house? every sunday growing up: one candle, no phones, no tv, my father telling stories. i thought every family did candle night. last week at a friend's place i asked where the candle was and her mum asked if the light was off. it was on. it was a normal bright sunday. i have been telling people about candle night for years and they were just being polite